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IPV/DV

Stalking and IPV/DV Violence

Stalking suspects are unfortunately rarely arrested or prosecuted for stalking, despite stalking being associated with a threefold increase in the risk of homicide among female victims by male partners (Logan, 2022).

Learn More: Red Flags

What are you doing? Why are you doing this to me?" and he would yell back, "because I can!" he would always tell me, "I own you![...] Yes, I owned you from the first day I met you.


Logan, et al., 2006, p. 53

The "purpose"

Control/Posession

Control/Posession

Control/Posession

Partner stalking is unique in that it occurs within the context of an active relationship, as opposed to an acquaintance, ex-intimate, or other types of stalking. The control may come in the form of life-invasion, such as monitoring behaviors, explicitly or covertly (Logan, et al., 2006).

Jealousy

Control/Posession

Control/Posession

Partners may express, or imply, concerns around infidelity. They also may not want their victims to socialize with friends or family, particularly without them present.

Reconciliation

Control/Posession

Reconciliation

Acts of domestic violence (DV), emotional, physical, or sexual, as well as previous stalking behavior can lead to separations. The stalking partner may then use additional stalking tactics as a way to monitor, or entice the victim to come back to them.

Learn more: Just Six Stages

Revenge

Intimidation

Reconciliation

The stalker, during periods of separation, may feel that their partner has no right to leave them. This may lead to desires of taking revenge on the partner-victim, or those close to them, who may have encouraged them to leave. Other victims may include new partners or others that the stalker considers to have inappropriately interfered.

Intimidation

Intimidation

Intimidation

Some partners may feel their stalker is exhibiting such behaviors in an attempt to intimidate them into not breaking the "rules" they have outlined.

Unknown

Intimidation

Intimidation

Some victims never identify a clear motive for their partner's stalking, There also may be a mixed or fluctuating motive.

Learn More: Stalker types/profiles

Domestic Violence

Protective Orders

This is a court order that says one person must refrain from doing certain acts against another person. It’s Maryland’s version of a restraining order or stay-away order.

You must have a certain type of relationship with the other person to be eligible for a protective order. Your relationship qualifies if you:

  • are married, divorced, or currently separated;
  • are related by marriage, blood or adoption (including stepparents and stepchildren if they have lived with you for at least 90 days in the past year);
  • have lived together in a sexual relationship for at least 90 days in the past year;
  • are the parents of a child together;
  • have had a sexual relationship with each other in the past year;
  • are a vulnerable adult;
  • raped or sexually assaulted  (including attempts) in the past six months.

Before the court can grant a final protective order, you must prove that the other person committed an act of abuse.

Link: Domestic Violence - Protective Orders

The Two Femicide Studies

Victims & providers in the stalking community are likely to have heard about the 'Femicide Study,' however, some may be less clear that are actually two written by McFarlane, et al.(1999 & 2002). Furthermore, while it is apparent the intent was a call to action regarding the relative risk for IPV/DV victims, there seems to be some evidence of misrepresentation for sociopolitical purposes.

In the first, McFarlane, et al. (1999) compared femicide and attempted femicide groups, finding the reported rate of stalking within the preceding 12 months of femicide was 76%, and attempted femicide was 85%. In the second, McFarlane, et al. (2002) combined femicide & attempted femicide groups and compared them to physically abused IPV/DV groups, utilizing a different assessment tool, they found that 68% of attempted/actual femicide victims experienced stalking within the preceding 12 months, and 51% of abused victims experienced stalking. While their findings did support that stalking was significantly associated with assault, it should also be noted that 79% of abused attempted/actual femicide victims reported stalking during the same period, however 49% of nonabused victims also reported stalking. We will attempt here to discuss their findings.

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The Femicide Studies

Relationship Status

Relationship Status

Relationship Status

McFarlane, et al. (1999) found among femicide victims 88% reported the relationship had ended (ex-partner), compared to 69% who reported it was current (partner).

Attempted femicide victims who reported stalking relationship-rates were, 68% reported the relationship had ended, and 63% the relationship was current.

McFarlane, et al. (2002) later found similar statistically significant rates, 83% of actual/attempted femicide victims reporting ex-partner; and 63% reporting current partner. However, abused participants reported 45% were in current relationships and 59% were ex-partners, which was not significant.

Learn More: Victim Profiles

Threats

Relationship Status

Relationship Status

McFarlane, et al. (1999) found one significantly different threat behavior. Attempted femicide victims reported their stalker "threatened to kill self if victim left" significantly more (34%) than femicide victims (19%) (p.310).

Threats of harm toward actual/attempted femicide victims were significantly higher than those reported by abused victims (McFarlane, et al., 2002). However, among the actual/attempted femicide group threatening to kill the victim (54.5%) and frightening the victim with a weapon (39.6%) were significantly higher than the abused group (McFarlane, et al., 2002). Victims who reported being threatened or frightened with a weapon had nearly six times increased risk. 

Additionally, actual/femicide victims did not have substantial reports of  threats to call child protective services, immigration, or other authorities (8.7%). However, victims who reported threats to "harm the children if the victim left" had a ninefold increase in femicide risk (p. 64).

Threatening or frightening the victims family increase risk twofold (McFarlane, et al., 2002)

Threatening to kill the victim three times increase risk (McFarlane, et al., 2002)

 Overall, seven out of 10 of the threat behaviors were associated with increased risk of femicide (McFarlane, et al., 2002).

McFarlane, et al. (2002) found in further analysis after controlling for demographics, that stalking behavior in which the perpetrator followed, spied on, or tried to communicate with the victim against their will, increased the risk of femicide nearly two-fold. A third behavior, of unwanted calls was identified as significant in adjusted models.

Leaving "scary notes" on the victim's car four times more likely to become a femicide victim (McFarlane, et al., 2002, p. 64). 

Behaviors that worked as protective factors and lowered the risk by 50% included intentionally harming a pet,  and leaving voicemail messages (McFarlane, et al., 2002).

Learn More: Red Flags

Physical Abuse

Relationship Status

Physical Abuse

Questions were limited to the 12 months preceding the incident in both studies, utilizing informants where necessary. Physical abuse was found in 67% of femicide victims, and 71% of attempted femicide victims (McFarlane, et al., 1999). Of those who reported abuse, 89% also reported stalking, compared to 56% of nonabused femicide victims. A significant relationship between physical abuse and stalking also existed, among attempted femicide victims 91% of those who reported abuse within the year prior to the incident also reported stalking compared to 68% of nonabused women reporting stalking. 

While only 69% actual/attempted femicide victims were physically abused within the last year, which was less than their abused counterparts (100%), abuse was significantly associated with reporting stalking, 79%, compared to non-abused (49%) McFarlane, et al. (2002).

Learn More: First Aid/CPR

Frequency

Criminal Justice Barriers

Physical Abuse

From an 18 item-survey, McFarlane, et al. (1999) found no statistically significant difference between the number of reported behaviors from from the femicide group (M = 4.6), and the attempted femicide group (M = 4.2).

Utilizing a 16 item survey, McFarlane, et al. (2002) found the actual/attempted femicide group to be significantly higher (M =2.4) than  abused group (M = 1.4).

Learn More: Self Defense

Criminal Justice Barriers

Criminal Justice Barriers

Criminal Justice Barriers

There were no statistically significant differences in reporting behaviors between femicide (54%) and attempted femicide (49%) (McFarlane, et al., 1999). 

However, when comparing both actual/attempted femicide (41%) to abused women (19%), we do see a difference (McFarlane, et al., 2002). 

The most common reporting agency was the police in both studies, however it was only reported in McFarlane, et al. (2002), to include sheriffs, attempted/actual femicide victims reported more frequently (29%) compared to (11%) of controls. 

Learn More: Criminal Justice Barriers

Demographics

Criminal Justice Barriers

Criminal Justice Barriers

Previous research has found women account for a greater proportion of persons killed by an intimate, including Black male and female victims, murders involving a firearm, however White females non-marital intimate victims between 1976 and 1996 showed an increase in fatalities (McFarlane, et al, 1999).

Ethnicity and education were identified as significant risk factors for femicide in adjusted models (McFarlane, et al, 2002). African American women were four times more likely than White women to become femicide victims, therefore McFarlane, et al.'s, (2002) adjusted model indicated African American women are at threefold greater risk than White women to become femicide victims. Women who had not graduated from high school had a  2.8% increase in risk, or twice as likely.

Learn More: Resilience

Resources

Link: PETITION FOR PROTECTION FROM; DOMESTIC VIOLENCE; CHILD ABUSE; VULNERABLE ADULT ABUSELink: ADDENDUM TO PETITION FOR PROTECTIVE ORDER (DESCRIPTION OF RESPONDENT)Link: Financial AbuseLink: Women & Financial LiteracyLink: Definition of StalkingLink: 25 Tips to Stay Safe When an Ex Becomes a StalkerLink: House of Ruth: Adelante FamiliaTHE STALKING OF KRISTIN
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