Resilience and empowerment

Victims can identify emotional management that works for them. While stalking is never a positive experience, Logan, et al. (2006) did find that some partner-stalking victims reported some growth, having discovered their "inner strengths" (p.179).

Many victims have figured out how to be resourceful! Such as creating security systems with little knowledge or resources. Victims obtain trainings to address a myriad of needs. They also learn covert behaviors spies would be impressed with, such as taking alternate routes and parking in hidden areas!

It is advised every victim conduct their own risk analysis independently, or with a trained advisor, such as victims advocate, law enforcement, mental health professional, or other trained professional. Stalking behaviors are not your fault, but unfortunately, getting away from them safely, becomes your responsibility.

Victims are often more likely to reach out to friends, family, and coworkers, than they are to seek guidance from formal networks first. Additionally, those in their circle will often see the red flags and alert the victim to stalking behavior. While these experiences are not always positive, many victims receive reciprocal support and guidance from such networks. Being open and honest with those in your circle can keep all involved safe.

Victims have traditionally had trouble obtaining and utilizing formal resources to address stalking, for a myriad of reasons. This includes different types of victims, as well as different types of resources. However, we have to be persistent, following up with health and mental health professionals to receive treatment; as well as law enforcement and the CJS to obtain PPOs, have them enforced, or have their stalker detained.