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Just Stalking
  • Home
  • About
    • About Just Stalking
    • History/Development
  • "I have a stalker!" Steps
    • Just Quick Steps & Logs
    • Just Six Stages
    • Red Flags & Violence
    • Victim & Stalker Profiles
    • Two-Weeks - Recurrence
    • Stalking-by-Proxy
  • Special Victims Unit
    • Same-Gender
    • Men-Victims/Women Stalker
    • False Victimization (FVS)
    • Military & Vets
    • College
    • Juvenile Stalking
  • Security Tips
    • Personal Security
    • Cyber/Online Tips
    • Residence Security Tips
    • Car/Travel Security Tips
    • Office/Work Security Tips
    • Self-Defense Classes
    • First Aid/CPR
  • MD Victims' Rights & Laws
    • MD & Relevant Laws
    • Victims' Rights/Process
    • Restitution/Compensation
    • Address Confidentiality
    • Criminal Justice Barriers
  • Professional & Workplace
    • Non-Family Violence (NFV)
    • Workplace: Police
    • Professional Victims
    • NFV Recommendations
  • DV/IPV & Intrafamilial
    • Partner Stalking
    • Just Provider Tips
  • Cyberstalking
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Victim Classifications

Victim Types

There is reasonable debate within the professional community, as well as others, as to whether "stalking," as it is classically defined, can be applied to intact-intimate partner relationships (Logan, et al., 2006; Mullen, et al., 2009). Stalking is usually thought of as occurring amongst strangers, acquaintances, or amongst other IPV/DV relationships in which ties have been severed and individuals no longer reside in the same dwelling (Logan, et al., 2006; Mullen, et al., 2009). Mullen, et al. (2009) believe stalking behaviors are those in which the aim is to "make one's presence felt where otherwise it would not exist" (p. 59). This is particularly true with the changes in traditional gender roles, the increase in cyberstalking capabilities, in addition to previous research suggesting that partner-stalking may have seeded prior to the dissolution of a relationship, allowing partner-stalkers to be 'felt.' Our position is that partner stalking should be included as a stalking type but, should be separate from other ex-intimate violence.

Victim typologies

(Prior) ex-intimates

Estranged family &/or friend

(Prior) ex-intimates

This category is widely debated amongst professional groups, advocates, and even victims. The debate being simply that this category should be combined with other partner stalking or broken up further as stalking has been found to occur after the relationship has ended for 43% of women (McFarlane, et al., 1999). 

We will attempt to do what is best for our community. We have chosen to define ex-intimates as: those who have ended a non-platonic relationship and are no longer living with that person.

In Maryland, 49.1% of stalking offenders were identified as former intimate or current partners during a female victim's lifetime (Smith, et al., 2017).

Partner

Estranged family &/or friend

(Prior) ex-intimates

Previous research found stalking by an intimate partner occurred before the relationship ended for 21% of women and occurred both before and after the relationship ended for 36% of women (McFarlane, et al., 1999).

This category is also widely debated amongst professional groups, advocates, and even victims. The debate being simply that this category should be combined or that stalking cannot commence until one is residing in a separate residence. 

We will attempt to do what is best for our community. We define "partner" as those who are still in some type of defined committed, intimate, relationship, and/or, living with that person. 

Estranged family &/or friend

Estranged family &/or friend

Estranged family &/or friend

This can include parents, siblings, extended family members, and children, among others.

Casual acquantences

Professional contacts

Estranged family &/or friend

This can include casual social encounters or other associations. This includes neighbors, historically one of the highest categories for male victims, such as an overblown neighborhood dispute taken too far by a resentful stalker (Mullen, et al., 2009). Intimacy seekers and incompetent stalkers may seek casual acquaintances. However, rejected stalkers may attack a casual acquaintance after the dissolution of a casual friendship.

In Maryland, 34.3% of stalking offenders were identified as an acquaintance during a female victim's lifetime (Smith, et al., 2017).

*It should be noted the definition of acquaintance can vary widely between study/researcher.*

Professional contacts

Professional contacts

Professional contacts

This category includes health and mental health care providers, lawyers, and teachers, among others. These professions are particularly vulnerable to stalking, given their direct contact with client/patients, and the ways in which they provide services, including providing extended, on-going services, direct, personal, care, and employing empathic techniques that can be misconstrued. Additionally, when clients are displeased with services resentment can be an outcome (Mullen, et al., 2009). 

Workplace contact

Professional contacts

Professional contacts

External workplace: stalking is stalking that arises outside of the workplace, such as IPV/DV ex-intimate, or partner, stalking that then enters the workplace and disrupts the employee and/or their work-environment, including coworkers. These are usually rejected stalkers, and make up about half of workplace stalking incidents (Mullen, et al.)

Internal workplace: stalking is stalking that arises within a work context, such as a coworker, a superior, provider, or occasionally a customer (but these are usually professional contacts).

Strangers

Public figures

Strangers

Some victims may not know they have a stalker prior to being made aware either by happenstance or by introduction (Mullen, et al., 2009).  These are usually intimacy seekers or incompetent suitors. The feeling is that while persistent, they are less likely to be violent, but can be known to make threats, and can act violently if they are repeatedly rebuffed. Typically, sexually predatory stalker victims will experience severe but short-lived attention compared to other types of victims, though their level of awareness has to be taken into account.

Unknowns

Public figures

Strangers

It is possible for a victim to have a stalker and be unaware of who their stalker is, or their motive, this is different from a stranger in that it has not been determined who they are or what they intend.

Public figures

Public figures

Secondary victim

Victims in these cases are known primarily through their celebrity or public profile, including entertainers, sports stars, writers, models, socialites, politicians, heads of state, radio-personalities, etc. Particularly in the Metro-area, Maryland has numerous political figures who have attracted the attention of stalkers with numerous agendas.

Secondary victim

Secondary victim

Secondary victim

A secondary victim may become emotionally, financially, or physically injured intentionally or unintentionally by the stalker. The secondary victim can be in the wrong place at the wrong time or be used as a pawn. The stalker can be negligent, thoughtless, careless, or reckless. They may also intentionally do harm to this person. One study from 2005 suggested that secondary-partner-victims of stalking victims were pursued often, and accounted for 3% of the total victim population. Furthermore, pets can be injured or killed in the process. 

Unusual victims

Secondary victim

Unusual victims

Mullen, et al. (2009) found that stalkers can themselves become victims of stalking. Additionally, other unusual targets may include celebrity murderers or other high-profile individuals who attract unwanted attention, even during incarceration. 

Know who is outside your door

Stalker Profiles

There are more than 20 typologies developed for stalking. Our training and credentials are with the stalking risk profile (SRP), which uses rejected, resentful, intimacy seekers, incompetent suitor, and predatory. The Group for the Advancement of Psychiatry's (GAP) Committee on Psychiatry and Law has accepted this classification system, (Mullen, et al., 2009). Additionally, we will identify "red flags" for victims to be aware of for their own safety, the safety of their families, and that of their communities.

Its not in the profile

"Unfortunately, in some ways, it is harder to develop a general profile of a stalker than it is [to develop a profile of] a rapist or murderer. [Stalkers] can come from any background, any walk of life, and their behavior can accelerate from seemingly "normal" to deadly" quickly." (Schell and Lanteigne, 2000, p. 7).

Stalker typologies

Rejected

Intimacy Seeking

Resentful

The breakdown of a close relationship. 

The victim is primarily an ex-intimate. Occasionally, a close associate, i.e. best friend, long term therapist.

The goal is reconciliation or revenge (can fluctuate). The stalking becomes a substitute for the relationship.

Resentful

Intimacy Seeking

Resentful

The stalker feels there was an injustice or humiliation, this can arise from mental illness. The victim may be an acquaintance or stranger, having attracted attention due to their actions or something/one they represent. This accounts for a sizable portion of workplace stalking. They desire revenge or validation. This may continue because of the feelings of power and control they garner from their harassment.  

Intimacy Seeking

Intimacy Seeking

Incompetent Suitor

The stalker may be feeling a sense of loneliness or lack of love. This may be driven by a major mental illness. The victim may be a stranger or acquaintance. Initially the motivation may be to establish a relationship. The delusion may cause the stalker to sustain the fantasy of love with ever increasing levels of threats in the face of continued rejection.

Incompetent Suitor

Incompetent Suitor

Incompetent Suitor

Emerges out of loneliness or lust. Victims are often strangers or acquaintances. The motivation is to establish contact in the hope of friendship, or a sexual relationship. They are either blind or indifferent to the disinterest or distress of the victim. These are usually brief pursuits but can become more intense in which case they become rejected or resentful.

Predatory

Incompetent Suitor

There are more?!

Usually deviant sexual practices. Victims are strangers, usually women, children, or public figures. These stalkers can be violent. The goal is to gain information, sexual gratification, and/or prepare for an attack which is usually sexual. Their continued pursuit is based on voyeurism, fantasizing and rehearsing the attack, a sense of power, and sadism. 

There are more?!

Incompetent Suitor

There are more?!

There are a multitude of profiles that exist, some theories have fewer typologies, others have far more than listed here. Some combine, others break down the aforementioned types, others have identified different typologies altogether. However, most of that is arguably irrelevant for the purposes of victim safety and security and the steps. Providers treating stalkers wanting more info please refer to the link.

Link: Stalking Risk Profile (SRP)

Psychopathy & Stalking

Are stalkers psychopaths?

Psychopathy is a form of personality disorder also known as antisocial personality disorder or dissocial personality disorder, symptoms include arrogance, deceitfulness, impulsivity, and antisocial behavior (Storey, et al., 2008). They are more likely to victimize strangers, use weapons, and commit crimes of opportunity, rather than crimes motivated by attachment. A psychopath is characterized by a lack of desire or motivation to form close attachments, as opposed to stalking which is the desire to form or maintain an unwanted attachment. Research has found among those who engage in stalking the prevalence of psychopathy is lower  and the average rating on the Screening Version for the Hare Psychopathy Checklist-Revised (PCL:SV) is well below the cutoff. Storey, et al. (2008) did not find any association between psychopathy and stalker-victim relationship, which  contradicted previous findings, they recommended including motivation in future research.

Their research did, identify psychopathic traits, as being associated with stalking, specifically "boldness and coolness" in stalkers (Storey, et al., 2008, n.p.). Additionally, psychopathic stalkers were highly preoccupied with their victims, escalated their behavior, and targeted vulnerable victims. They were unlikely to be love-sick (intimacy seeking), or romantically inept (incompetent suitor), nor motivated by strong emotional attachments (rejected). Psychopathic stalking did not reflect efforts to establish or maintain relationships (intimacy seeking/rejected), or did it reflect separation protest or intense personal distress over the dissolution of a close relationship.

Storey, et al., (2008) theorize psychopathic stalkers were motivated by status.  Stalking is therefore a tool or tactic to (re-)establish agency, dominance, or control to a narcissistic injury, due to perceived harm caused by the victim. Psychopathic stalkers will engage in violence that is instrumental rather than affective. Therefore, if you are managing a psychopathic stalker a risk &/or threat assessment and management techniques must be implemented. Psychopathic stalkers are notoriously noncompliant and non-responsive to supervision and intervention. Strategies employed may increase risk, by provoking them, professionals should rely on unobtrusive strategies to "save face" and motivate rather than directly intervening Storey, et al., 2008, n.p.. 

Since then he has been married twice and done this to three other victims.


Gross, 2012, p. 174

Relevant Article, News, & More

link: Stabbing Victim Was Stalked on Social Media by His Killer
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