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IPV/DV

Stalking and IPV/DV Violence

Stalking suspects are unfortunately rarely arrested or prosecuted for stalking, despite stalking being associated with a threefold increase in the risk of homicide among female victims by male partners (Logan, 2022).

Learn More: Red Flags

What are you doing? Why are you doing this to me?" and he would yell back, "because I can!" he would always tell me, "I own you![...] Yes, I owned you from the first day I met you.


Logan, et al., 2006, p. 53

The "purpose"

Control/Posession

Control/Posession

Control/Posession

Partner stalking is unique in that it occurs within the context of an active relationship, as opposed to an acquaintance, ex-intimate, or other types of stalking. The control may come in the form of life-invasion, such as monitoring behaviors, explicitly or covertly (Logan, et al., 2006).

Jealousy

Control/Posession

Control/Posession

Partners may express, or imply, concerns around infidelity. They also may not want their victims to socialize with friends or family, particularly without them present.

Reconciliation

Control/Posession

Reconciliation

Acts of domestic violence (DV), emotional, physical, or sexual, as well as previous stalking behavior can lead to separations. The stalking partner may then use additional stalking tactics as a way to monitor, or entice the victim to come back to them.

Learn more: Just Six Stages

Revenge

Intimidation

Reconciliation

The stalker, during periods of separation, may feel that their partner has no right to leave them. This may lead to desires of taking revenge on the partner-victim, or those close to them, who may have encouraged them to leave. Other victims may include new partners or others that the stalker considers to have inappropriately interfered.

Intimidation

Intimidation

Intimidation

Some partners may feel their stalker is exhibiting such behaviors in an attempt to intimidate them into not breaking the "rules" they have outlined.

Unknown

Intimidation

Intimidation

Some victims never identify a clear motive for their partner's stalking, There also may be a mixed or fluctuating motive.

Learn More: Stalker types/profiles

The Two Femicide Studies

Victims & providers in the stalking community are likely to have heard about the 'Femicide Study,' however, some may be less clear that are actually two written by McFarlane, et al.(1999 & 2002). Furthermore, while it is apparent the intent was a call to action regarding the relative risk for IPV/DV victims, there seems to be some evidence of misrepresentation for sociopolitical purposes.

In the first, McFarlane, et al. (1999) compared femicide and attempted femicide groups, finding the reported rate of stalking within the preceding 12 months of femicide was 76%, and attempted femicide was 85%. In the second, McFarlane, et al. (2002) combined femicide & attempted femicide groups and compared them to physically abused IPV/DV groups, utilizing a different assessment tool, they found that 68% of attempted/actual femicide victims experienced stalking within the preceding 12 months, and 51% of abused victims experienced stalking. While their findings did support that stalking was significantly associated with assault, it should also be noted that 79% of abused attempted/actual femicide victims reported stalking during the same period, however 49% of nonabused victims also reported stalking. We will attempt here to discuss their findings.

Learn More: Violence

The Femicide Studies

Relationship Status

Relationship Status

Relationship Status

McFarlane, et al. (1999) found among femicide victims 88% reported the relationship had ended (ex-partner), compared to 69% who reported it was current (partner).

Attempted femicide victims who reported stalking relationship-rates were, 68% reported the relationship had ended, and 63% the relationship was current.

McFarlane, et al. (2002) later found similar statistically significant rates, 83% of actual/attempted femicide victims reporting ex-partner; and 63% reporting current partner. However, abused participants reported 45% were in current relationships and 59% were ex-partners, which was not significant.

Learn More: Victim Profiles

Threats

Relationship Status

Relationship Status

McFarlane, et al. (1999) found one significantly different threat behavior. Attempted femicide victims reported their stalker "threatened to kill self if victim left" significantly more (34%) than femicide victims (19%) (p.310).

Threats of harm toward actual/attempted femicide victims were significantly higher than those reported by abused victims (McFarlane, et al., 2002). However, among the actual/attempted femicide group threatening to kill the victim (54.5%) and frightening the victim with a weapon (39.6%) were significantly higher than the abused group (McFarlane, et al., 2002). Victims who reported being threatened or frightened with a weapon had nearly six times increased risk. 

Additionally, actual/femicide victims did not have substantial reports of  threats to call child protective services, immigration, or other authorities (8.7%). However, victims who reported threats to "harm the children if the victim left" had a ninefold increase in femicide risk (p. 64).

Threatening or frightening the victims family increase risk twofold (McFarlane, et al., 2002)

Threatening to kill the victim three times increase risk (McFarlane, et al., 2002)

 Overall, seven out of 10 of the threat behaviors were associated with increased risk of femicide (McFarlane, et al., 2002).

McFarlane, et al. (2002) found in further analysis after controlling for demographics, that stalking behavior in which the perpetrator followed, spied on, or tried to communicate with the victim against their will, increased the risk of femicide nearly two-fold. A third behavior, of unwanted calls was identified as significant in adjusted models.

Leaving "scary notes" on the victim's car four times more likely to become a femicide victim (McFarlane, et al., 2002, p. 64). 

Behaviors that worked as protective factors and lowered the risk by 50% included intentionally harming a pet,  and leaving voicemail messages (McFarlane, et al., 2002).

Learn More: Red Flags

Physical Abuse

Relationship Status

Physical Abuse

Questions were limited to the 12 months preceding the incident in both studies, utilizing informants where necessary. Physical abuse was found in 67% of femicide victims, and 71% of attempted femicide victims (McFarlane, et al., 1999). Of those who reported abuse, 89% also reported stalking, compared to 56% of nonabused femicide victims. A significant relationship between physical abuse and stalking also existed, among attempted femicide victims 91% of those who reported abuse within the year prior to the incident also reported stalking compared to 68% of nonabused women reporting stalking. 

While only 69% actual/attempted femicide victims were physically abused within the last year, which was less than their abused counterparts (100%), abuse was significantly associated with reporting stalking, 79%, compared to non-abused (49%) McFarlane, et al. (2002).

Learn More: First Aid/CPR

Frequency

Criminal Justice Barriers

Physical Abuse

From an 18 item-survey, McFarlane, et al. (1999) found no statistically significant difference between the number of reported behaviors from from the femicide group (M = 4.6), and the attempted femicide group (M = 4.2).

Utilizing a 16 item survey, McFarlane, et al. (2002) found the actual/attempted femicide group to be significantly higher (M =2.4) than  abused group (M = 1.4).

Learn More: Self Defense

Criminal Justice Barriers

Criminal Justice Barriers

Criminal Justice Barriers

There were no statistically significant differences in reporting behaviors between femicide (54%) and attempted femicide (49%) (McFarlane, et al., 1999). 

However, when comparing both actual/attempted femicide (41%) to abused women (19%), we do see a difference (McFarlane, et al., 2002). 

The most common reporting agency was the police in both studies, however it was only reported in McFarlane, et al. (2002), to include sheriffs, attempted/actual femicide victims reported more frequently (29%) compared to (11%) of controls. 

Learn More: Criminal Justice Barriers

Demographics

Criminal Justice Barriers

Criminal Justice Barriers

Previous research has found women account for a greater proportion of persons killed by an intimate, including Black male and female victims, murders involving a firearm, however White females non-marital intimate victims between 1976 and 1996 showed an increase in fatalities (McFarlane, et al, 1999).

Ethnicity and education were identified as significant risk factors for femicide in adjusted models (McFarlane, et al, 2002). African American women were four times more likely than White women to become femicide victims, therefore McFarlane, et al.'s, (2002) adjusted model indicated African American women are at threefold greater risk than White women to become femicide victims. Women who had not graduated from high school had a  2.8% increase in risk, or twice as likely.

Learn More: Resilience

Service Providers

Not like everybody else

Research from one study recommended that DV victims who experience stalking should receive different services, specifically tailored to their needs (Logan, et al., 2006). The findings from this study suggested that advocates, CJS personnel, and MH professionals were not always aware, attuned, or informed of the specialized services, and may underestimate the seriousness of stalking, aside and apart from other DV services (Logan, et al., 2006).

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Holiday 2026 Stalking Safety Tips

Providing Support during the Holidays

Considerations for working with stalking victims & those in their circle during the holidays.

Considerations for working with stalking victims & those in their circle during the holidays.

1.  Victims may experience additional stress during what can already be an emotionally and physically draining time. 

2.  Victims may need additional emotional support from advocates, counselors, and helplines during the holiday season, 

a.  especially if unable to be with their family, friends, or faith community, or if grieving losses or life-changes.

3.  The importance of safety planning around the holidays should not be underestimated.

4.  Advocates can help keep the season safe for victims by sharing holiday-specific safety tips.

Considerations for working with stalking victims & those in their circle during the holidays.

Considerations for working with stalking victims & those in their circle during the holidays.

Considerations for working with stalking victims & those in their circle during the holidays.

1.  Strive for inclusiveness, keeping in mind that not everyone observes the same holidays (or any holiday at all). 

2.  Every culture celebrates the holidays with its own unique traditions. 

3.  Advocates can research a broad range of holiday observances to be prepared to support stalking-victims from different populations.

Provide one-on-one counseling.

Considerations for working with stalking victims & those in their circle during the holidays.

Provide one-on-one counseling.

·  A survey of 90 domestic violence programs found that 88.5% of victims requested “information about counseling options.”

·  The holidays are a perfect time to provide more individual counseling.

o  There may be concerns they may not wish to share during a group session.

o  Victims may be expected to participate in other group activities during the holidays i.e. child’s school, place of worship, or workplace, and may need more one-on-one time with counselors to process their feelings and experiences (NRC, 2013).

Emphasize safety planning.

Stalking-victims with disabilities/Deaf.

Provide one-on-one counseling.

·  Keep the season safe by sharing holiday specific safety tips.

o  Including starting new holiday routines,

·  Meet family and friends in new locations unknown to the stalker,

·  Avoid places and times where stalkers’ may anticipate finding their victim

o  shopping areas,

o  holiday parades,

o  and events,

·  Use a P.O. Box (or no return address at all) if sending holidays cards/gifts (NRC, 2013).

Learn More: Personal Security

Immigrant stalking-victims.

Stalking-victims with disabilities/Deaf.

Stalking-victims with disabilities/Deaf.

·  Individuals from other cultural/ethnic backgrounds may observe holidays differently.

·  Avoid generalizing

·  Promote inclusiveness through linguistically accessible practices.

o  Holidays may be a particularly difficult time to be away from family and/or friends for immigrant victims.

·  Communication with those in their circle through the use of digital devices may be difficult due to cyberstalking(NRC, 2013). 

Stalking-victims with disabilities/Deaf.

Stalking-victims with disabilities/Deaf.

Stalking-victims with disabilities/Deaf.

·  Holiday events must be accessible to all victims receiving services.

o  There are multiple dimensions to accessibility when planning an event 

o  or providing domestic violence services in general.

·  Test plans in advance through the lens of

o  physical,

o  programmatic,

o  communication and 

o  attitudinal accessibility.

·  Holiday celebrations must be inclusive.

o  Provide interpreters and/or closed captioning for Deaf victims. 

·  Holiday decorations must not impede the physical space or become obstacles for victims using assistive devices. 

o  Disability and deafness have been used as weapons to control victims (NRC, 2013). 

Learn More: Physical Health & Stalking

Burnout

Burnout

Burnout

·  Be sensitive to advocate workload, especially during the holidays.

·  Understand that overloading a single staff person can place them at higher risk for burnout. 

·  Ensure that staff are allowed sufficient time off to be with those in their circle during important holiday events.

o  Supervisors should be respectful of cultural, traditional, or religious observances.

o  Supervisors should allow for flexible scheduling during this time. 

o  Additional staff may be needed to help cover shifts to meet the needs of frontline advocates (NRC, 2013).

Service Provider Tips

Inform the Police/Obtain PPO

If a person has been the victim of partner stalking, they can consider applying for a protective order. If they are a victim of acquaintance, or stranger,  harassment or stalking, they can apply for a peace order. This is at the victim's discretion. However, it is important to remember, the longer the behavior persists, the longer it can persist.

Learn More: PPOs

Document all Incidents

It is extremely important to document all incidents. Keep and maintain a record, and tell all secondary victims and bystanders to do the same. This may escalate and become a legal matter quickly. However, it can be drawn out for years, or decades. Documentation is the victim's evidence that they may have to use to fight for justice.

Link: LogBook: DV & Stalking

Create a safety plan

Safety planning will look different depending on the current state, nature, and context of each victim's relationship. However, a safety plan should be implemented independently and/or with their family, neighbors, coworkers, etc. 

Learn more: Personal Security

Resources

Helpful articles, news, & more
Link: PETITION FOR PROTECTION FROM; DOMESTIC VIOLENCE; CHILD ABUSE; VULNERABLE ADULT ABUSELink: ADDENDUM TO PETITION FOR PROTECTIVE ORDER (DESCRIPTION OF RESPONDENT)Link: Financial AbuseLink: Women & Financial LiteracyLink: Definition of StalkingLink: 25 Tips to Stay Safe When an Ex Becomes a StalkerLink: House of Ruth: Adelante FamiliaTHE STALKING OF KRISTINLink: the center for abuse awareness
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